We each set our boundaries, although we are sure they are not in our control. Realizing that we have the power to change them can release the bonds that may be holding us back. It can take concentration and strength of will, but manifest to move outside of that which is holding you back from your dreams.
Look to see if there are other paths, even if they are those that you never thought you would tread
Take a Hard Look
When you feel yourself falling into the abyss of reasons and excuses, dig deeper into the alternatives that can institute change. Look to see if there are other paths, even if they are those that you never thought you would tread. There is adventure for the taking if you move beyond the ropes that you have encircled in your life.
Break the Bonds Gently
Each time you recognize a bond that is holding you back, gently cut it and allow it to float away. It will open the windows to the fresh air of possibilities and give you greater control of your purpose. You are meant to be all that you are and it often requires moving outside of what you know.