Are you one of those people who never seem to find love? Have you been searching and searching but having no success? If so, you are definitely not alone. There are many beautiful souls out there who haven’t found love, but rest assured, there are things you can do about it.
Why is love so elusive for some people, while others seem to attract it like a magnet? It just doesn’t seem fair! Well, fair or not, that’s the way it goes sometimes. The question is, why is love so elusive for you?
Are you actively looking or are you simply hoping that “the one” will somehow magically appear at your doorstep?
This may sound uncomfortable, but perhaps it’s time to take a long hard look in the mirror, not to place blame, but to evaluate where you are. Ask yourself some questions. Do you tell yourself (and others) that you’ll never find love? Are negative thoughts about relationships constantly running through your head? Do you feel like you are not worthy of love? Do you put yourself down or nitpick over your imperfections?
Another thing to consider is your “love search.” Are you actively looking or are you simply hoping that “the one” will somehow magically appear at your doorstep? Be truly honest with yourself.
What You Can Do
Once you’ve come to terms with your thoughts and feelings, it’s time to take action. Start by changing your mindset. Use the Law of Attraction! Instead of thinking how difficult it is to find love, focus on the love you have in your life right now. True, it may not be romantic love, but appreciating the love of family, friends and even pets creates love energy vibrations. And these vibrations will eventually lead to the attraction of romantic love. Love begets more love!
Let the Universe know that you are open to receive romantic love. Put up that “open for business” sign and let others around you know that you are interested in meeting and dating new people. Make yourself available by getting out there in the world. Take a class, join a group, or just make an effort to socialize more. Meet the Universe half way and you’ll find love in no time!
Finally, understand that love may not always be on the same timetable as you. Remember, good things do come to those who wait. You will be rewarded!