When You’re Looking for Love You Never Find It

We’ve all heard it before, “when you’re looking for love you never find it”. I’m not so sure about that anymore, with how differently we socialize now as opposed to even 10 years ago. For those in their 20’s and 30’s hanging in the bars, or snapping away on Instagram has kept them in the instant flow of meeting new people daily. What about those in their 40’s and above who have long lost the interest of the bar seen or couldn’t be bothered with minute to minute updates on their phone, where do they go to find love if the advice is “stop looking for love and you will find it”.

If you’ve ever contemplated getting a dog before, maybe now’s the time. It’s a great way to meet people, not only at the dog-park but restaurants have become more pet friendly over the years, making it an easier way to strike up conversations with strangers

Best Ways to Find A New Love

If you’ve ever contemplated getting a dog before, maybe now’s the time. It’s a great way to meet people, not only at the dog-park but restaurants have become more pet friendly over the years, making it an easier way to strike up conversations with strangers. Keep in mind, all puppies are cute, but getting a dog that stays cute and has a good disposition later down the road, will keep you a quite desirable while out in public. Go out alone. That might sound a little odd, but it makes you less intimidating for someone to strike up a conversation with. If you’re shy and find it hard to go out alone, bring a book or get that furry friend I mentioned.

If you’re catching a flight out of town, get to the airport early. It’s a great way to meet people you normally may not be exposed to.
Happy hour, even if you don’t drink alcohol is a good way to grab something to eat, and the prices are usually half off during this time.
The gym can have it’s advantages to meeting people, because most go there to get the daily exercise in and are trying to impress. Hopefully...
Don’t be afraid to say “Hello” first. Sometimes we take for granted the power of our words and how they can affect another person.

Get Out There And Find Your Future Love

Remember that there is a lid for every pot. Just because some people stopped looking for love and found it doesn’t mean that’s your future story, get out there and find your next love, they just may be relying on you to find them!